Dr. Taylor Quinzell
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Sept 7, 2023 16:48:14 GMT -5
Post by Dr. Taylor Quinzell on Sept 7, 2023 16:48:14 GMT -5
"It is true that life can get busy." He knew that from experience and he also knew that everyone handled it differently as well as he nodded. "Sure just let me know when. I mean if anyone understands time constraints it is me." He would like to think that his kids might enjoy something. "Oh I have had all ten at once," he said as he took a seat in the middle of the floor as he thought about it. "Well now that I think about it that is the only time that I have felt almost as close to calm as I can remember." He went quiet again almost as if he were thinking which could be good or bad one simply never knew. Ten kids with ten different people and each kid being different in their own way was good. "Hmm," he said. "Yeah that was definitely when I felt most like all the pieces that make me who I want to be were in the same spot." They made him better, almost felt literal as he continued to think about it. If he thought about it too much he might think that there was more to it than it was so he stopped and still stayed seated. "Do you have a piece of paper I can borrow?" Amber Louise Stephenson
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Sept 9, 2023 8:16:19 GMT -5
Post by Amber Louise Stephenson on Sept 9, 2023 8:16:19 GMT -5
“I’m surprised you get free time at all” Amber replied with a little smile. Then she added “I should have a notepad in the kitchen” then went and got it along with it accompanying pencil before handing it to him. “I work for Avery on Monday to Wednesday. So those evenings and the rest of the week should work fine”. So ten at once so that had to limit time away from the little ones. Yet it looked like he liked this reality rather than trying to avoid it. “It sounds that you like this state of affairs?” She posed. Dr. Taylor Quinzell
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Dr. Taylor Quinzell
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married to Cami and Carter <3
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Sept 10, 2023 8:28:57 GMT -5
Post by Dr. Taylor Quinzell on Sept 10, 2023 8:28:57 GMT -5
"Well," he said as he thought about it. "I find that as long as I am spending time with my kids the other women do not seem to mind if they are around so in spending time with my kids I am creating very unique, very sometimes stressful bonds with everyone but they seem to be working themselves out." He nodded as she spoke about the evenings and days she would be free as he looked at the notepad and pencil and begin to write. "I do not like this. I mean I know it appears that I like this and I do like the harem having itself because women like men do need support and I am never breaking it up but I also push the idea of them having other people. The harem is, or was rather just supposed to be a safe space for them to bond over having the same baby daddy. Not my proudest moment but it gave them a point to start at and more than that it allowed the siblings to be in the same room twice a week." He was still writing, still thinking. "My ideal situation is to annul my marriage to Cami, citing that she is not mentally well enough to be in it, after talking to her of course about the bigger plan. Wait a few months after she has gathered herself together and then marry her and Carter so that I can have my wife and my boyfriend who would then be my husband and we just blissfully be polyamorous." Amber Louise Stephenson
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Sept 10, 2023 12:43:50 GMT -5
Post by Amber Louise Stephenson on Sept 10, 2023 12:43:50 GMT -5
So he wasn’t fine with this after all but did have a plan which might lead to them having their own people. Not just him. “I can kind of see what you are trying” she replied. “I knew two student couples. One was lesbian by the way and they worked as a foursome quite well. It was like the song from Caberet when there was three ladies and only one man. It was also quite hot knowing what they got up to after a night clubbing. You also get the advantage of play dates and them growing up together. Nobody is going to mess with the Quinzell cousins once they get to school” she observed. It was also a safety net for them too as they formed their own group with themselves and the other mothers. “So you think you can pull this off?” she posed. Whatever worked for him but she added “have they expressed a viewpoint on this idea?” They needed to be on board for this to work. Dr. Taylor Quinzell
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Dr. Taylor Quinzell
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married to Cami and Carter <3
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Sept 11, 2023 6:06:25 GMT -5
Post by Dr. Taylor Quinzell on Sept 11, 2023 6:06:25 GMT -5
"Kind of?, please stop being so harsh on me!" he said. "I do not need to know that much information, do you know how much body sweat and body count was probably between them. Not to mention the sexually transmitted diseases and infections which is why I know my partners are all clean. Never get down without a test first." "My hope is that they do remain close when school starts and as they age up, though Star and Skylar seem less excited around the others. I think if I could get Cami to just give the ladies like a day without fussing they might be better but I will deal with that by myself." He was still writing, still pushing and processing. "I think at the end of a very long process it will work and a little. I think they both understand how much the other means to me, should an issue arise it will be Cami's jealousy but I am hoping we can push past it once she has done a few things." Amber Louise Stephensontagged madison out of habit XD
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Sept 11, 2023 16:12:00 GMT -5
Post by Amber Louise Stephenson on Sept 11, 2023 16:12:00 GMT -5
Amber’s reaction showed she thought she might have hit a sore point by her words. Something she hadn’t meant. Yes it was too much information to give out but this was her all over. He was also still writing which she figured was him still figuring things out. “Taylor, I’m not being harsh on you. It worked for them and everybody finds a way to deal with things like this” she replied. So his ideas could work too and she added “I do believe in you and this could work out”. Even if the mommas had issues the children would find a way to get on. Dr. Taylor Quinzell
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Dr. Taylor Quinzell
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married to Cami and Carter <3
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Sept 12, 2023 6:50:39 GMT -5
Post by Dr. Taylor Quinzell on Sept 12, 2023 6:50:39 GMT -5
He nodded. "I know, I am just trying to achieve this and it is possible but it is hard and it has so many factors but it will shake itself out in time." Plus there was the chance that Cami might like Carter better which he had thought about but he was going to have to risk that. "Do you think I have became spoiled by my situation?" He need an honest outside answer. "I mean even in telling them to go and find others I still know they want my body." He shook his head as he still wrote. "They seem addicted to me, which is so hot but also more bad than hot." Amber Louise Stephenson
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Sept 12, 2023 14:54:55 GMT -5
Post by Amber Louise Stephenson on Sept 12, 2023 14:54:55 GMT -5
Amber listened, considered and replied "I agree there is a lot of factors involved but you posed another question. A lot of people including your sister want you to succeed so is that what you think you mean? So even with telling them to find somebody else they still want you. I know as a nanny and childcare professional that children are the key. Life is better a lot of the time if they have two parents in their life; its not always possible and even if they don't have any they'll make a family in time along with the stability they need. So expect Madison to be a big part of this for years to come". She believed that as while it wouldn't be a normal family set up it would be strong enough to work. Dr. Taylor Quinzell
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Dr. Taylor Quinzell
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married to Cami and Carter <3
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Sept 13, 2023 18:14:30 GMT -5
Post by Dr. Taylor Quinzell on Sept 13, 2023 18:14:30 GMT -5
He thought about this as he turned the paper and looked at it. "I think succeeding as far as this family goes, well this dynamic goes is starting to take shape. It is a bit hard but hard and difficult mean that it will be worth the benefits or so I do believe. It is what I tell myself and what I also truly believe." He thought about it. "Yes I'm hot," he said as he laughed. "I mean I do not get it but they like what they like and why should I keep telling them no, but maybe it will cool off." He did not know he could only wait and see. "Madison can be as much of a part as she wants. I just did not want her to think it was what I expected since I know she has her own life. I'm hoping her she man of a girlfriend gets off of her ass and just marries my sister man, I can see all the signs but it is not up to me though I can see it would be great." He shook his head. "Okay so let me see, I honestly will need you to watch four of my kids every other Friday, so how much is that?" Amber Louise Stephenson
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Sept 14, 2023 10:36:40 GMT -5
Post by Amber Louise Stephenson on Sept 14, 2023 10:36:40 GMT -5
"Are you looking for a price per session or hour? And how long for?" Amber asked to clarify the question. She wouldn't have Avery's children that day as that was Monday to Wednesday under normal circumstances but she could compliment what Mallory did. Still she gave the matter some thought as four children were a lot to deal with as they needed fed, watered and to be kept amused. She needed to cover all those cost as this was her livelihood. She did clarify by saying "I'm going by day care rates in New York a week would start costing from $350 onwards per family. That's just a week so you don't have to be scientist to work out why the last day care place I worked for closed once the economy got bad". So that was the starting point even before you considered inflation. Then she considered what Taylor had mentioned about Madison. They were effectively a trio when children and she didn't really think that had changed. "She does sound so happy with Mallory and they might already have a time frame in mind" she added. "Why not just ask her or Mallory in a discrete manner. "They already live together so the next stage is getting engaged once they feel ready for it" she supposed. Dr. Taylor Quinzell
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Dr. Taylor Quinzell
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married to Cami and Carter <3
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Sept 14, 2023 18:15:53 GMT -5
Post by Dr. Taylor Quinzell on Sept 14, 2023 18:15:53 GMT -5
"Well considering that babysitting is how you make your living your rates do have to reflect what is going on so it is good that you have found a place where you can do what you like and live comfortably which is something that everyone should be able to do." He thought. "I mean I could but it would kind of make me seem like I'm overbearing and I'm not I just," he paused. "I just worry too. I know Mallory is great and would do everything that she could for Madison but it will not ever stop my worry. Plus I mean two women getting married would be good for the island. People need to see it. We are comfortable in how we feel about the genders of people who are the same but there are still those who are not." He thought. "Three days, ten hours each day is what I need." Amber Louise Stephenson
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Sept 15, 2023 8:24:33 GMT -5
Post by Amber Louise Stephenson on Sept 15, 2023 8:24:33 GMT -5
"You do worry Taylor. She worries about you as well but isn't that brothers and sisters do? I know for a fact from growing up that while in school as well as being called 'loopy Lou' I also got the full range of hurtful name calling. If people don't learn as children they'll carry all that bad stuff in their lives forever. A public wedding would show the unenlighted people living here what was going on and love is love". Then came the time frame and she factored in four children for ten hours a day over three days. 30 hours total. "I'd need to know a start and finish time for each day but I can work with that. How old are they? And I could start with my initial estimate as you're talking pretty close to a weeks child minding already I would suggest $600 dollars which would include everything including food, drinks, love and attention. Prices are a little higher here than New York given most things need shipped" she added. She might also need to do some educating too if that was needed. You did have children who would have gone to daycare and kindergarten but some where still too young for the latter. Dr. Taylor Quinzell
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Dr. Taylor Quinzell
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Sept 15, 2023 19:05:38 GMT -5
Post by Dr. Taylor Quinzell on Sept 15, 2023 19:05:38 GMT -5
He nodded. "Yeah I guess so. I thought as we got older it would be less and yet here I am being proven wrong but that is okay." He thought. "Noon until midnight," he said. "They are like 1, but they are twins so two sets of twins." He thought. "Even if they end up picked up before then I will still pay you for the time frame. It's just Star and Skylar and Hunter and Hayden, Cami is very particular about who interacts with them but I am aware that they will need more social skills so if I can slowly work this in they will not become so sheltered." Amber Louise Stephenson
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Sept 16, 2023 9:46:27 GMT -5
Post by Amber Louise Stephenson on Sept 16, 2023 9:46:27 GMT -5
Noon to midnight still gave her time to get sleep and have the morning to herself. "Taylor its never too early to get little ones social skills. That is also the time they get active and really need watched. I'll get them used to each other and others. Taking them out will be a challenge but I can always order in food if need be. Is there any particular allergens or favourites they have?" she asked as this was essential information. Even at one year old you could have both even if the favourite was whatever yogurts they liked. Dr. Taylor Quinzell
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Dr. Taylor Quinzell
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married to Cami and Carter <3
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Sept 17, 2023 8:28:44 GMT -5
Post by Dr. Taylor Quinzell on Sept 17, 2023 8:28:44 GMT -5
He thought about this as he moved to a second piece of paper. "Taking them out is a bit of work yes but I have found if you put Star first, then Skylar, Hunter and Hayden sort of fall into line. Star and Skylar will be walking soon as will Hunter, but Hayden, I need more time with him." Hayden seemed to fight the water more than his siblings, not for a fear but simply for a bit of weary. "Hayden might also be more attached to Cami so his difficulties might tie into her but I will help maintain it as best I can." He was not going to put her into any difficult situation. "They are all allergic to peanuts so no peanut things and as far as favorites, I only know Star's. She seems interested in fish, but I think that is because we live on an island. That reminds me I do need to get to work on that aquarium for Cami's apartment, so busy at times." Amber Louise Stephenson
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